Month: July 2014

Do you ever…

Do you ever just admire someone’s presence? As if you’re SO lucky to be there with that person… example: instead of watching tv together,  you watch that person watch tv to see their reactions to what’s on the screen. If it’s something funny, you get the chance to not only hear that person laugh,  but you see their initial reaction and embrace that smile/laugh that lights up the dark room you both are in as you cuddle under the sheets because you’re cherishing every second as if it was your last.
I mean, you never know when will be the last time you see this special person again so might as well embrace and love every second spent with them.  And this doesn’t only go for your significant other,  but also your family and close friends. Life is too short and we are born to die. Cherish the presence of those who make you smile and make you feel loved. 
As for admiring someone’s presence as if you’re watching that person watch tv….well I’m guilty. I do this all the time with Jake and I dont care because he’s probably the best thing that has happened to me and I love everything about him,  even on his bad days.
On that note, hope you enjoyed your Sunday.
Love, 
Dee

Life

Something has gotten into me. Something great. I call it “Hardcore Happiness” I’ve always said “You can’t live a positive life with a negative mind,” which is true.

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Okay, so I’ll tell you the truth… I’ve been dealing with this health issue that I am not 100% okay with talking about it openly yet, but I’m learning to deal with it and telling myself that everything is going to be okay. Yes, I get super anxious at times and I don’t really know what to expect because as of now I am playing the waiting game and not sure what it could turn into. I also begin to feel overwhelmed at times, but you know what? If I just sit here and worry all day, I won’t really enjoy the “NOW” — for this very reason it’s why I am not a huge fan about talking about it all the time. Though I may be dealing with this, I’m not dealing with it alone and I love my family, close friends and boyfriend for being there for me when I needed them and how they continue to be a great support system. XO Words cannot express how much I love them.

It’s all about enjoying your loved ones and being kind to everyone. You never know who may have it worse than you do. Some people take for granted of what and who they have in their life which blows my mind. I am fortunate enough to have such great people in my life who love and care about me. It’s all the little things that you may not notice which mean a lot… at least to me they do.

For example:
“Good Morning”
“How was your day?”
“Be careful”
“Text me when you get home so I know you’re safe”
“Sweet dreams”
“How are you?”
“I hope you’re feeling better”
“Have a good day today!”
“I miss you”
“Good night”…
“Can you come over?”
“Can I come over?”
“Can I see you?”
“Can I call you?”
“You’re beautiful”
“Want something to drink?”
“Watch your step”
“Let’s watch a movie”
“What are you up to?”
“How is your day so far?”
“It will be okay”
“I’m here for you”
“Do you need anything?”
“Are you hungry?”
“I just wanted to hear your voice”
“You just made my day”

You don’t have to hear “I Love You” to know that someone does. Listen carefully. People speak from the heart more often than you think
I hope this post makes you realize how precious life is and to pay close attention to those around you. Quit bashing what you hate, promote what you love and keep it moving people; life doesn’t stop for anyone.

Until next time,
Dee