Being a mommy vs. fitness

When I was pregnant everything I saw was either pregnancy related, pregnant women or babies…. EVERYWHERE! Or maybe I just started noticing those things more since I was soon going to enter the world of motherhood. One of the most motivating things I saw often would be mothers with their child in a stroller out for a walk and I wanted to do the same one day. I was pregnant during the summertime and to those mommies who have been there know what great joy that is…. not really.

Dylan was born in September – Crisp, cool air. I figured it’d be perfect before winter made an appearance. I really wanted to get back into shape and eat healthier, etc. That’s when reality hit me. I was a new mom, breastfeeding, lack of sleep and was only able to take two months off from work. I became a working mom in November and life got busier with work, Dylan and Jake, trying to maintain a social life, but who am I kidding!? It may sound like I’m making up excuses to not work out and to be honest, sometimes I did/do use them as an excuse. All I want most days is to sleep, clean, eat or a nice, hot shower.

I still haven’t got into a routine that includes working out, but I really want to figure it out. I have lost 28 pounds so far which I’m happy about. Friends and family tell me not to be so hard on myself about losing weight, but I just want to get back to how I used to be. I’ve been a tad bit impatient about it and I believe that’s my problem.  However, I’m trying to stay positive and take it one step at a time 🙂 Also, today I took Dylan out for a walk in his stroller for the first time since the temperature was up a little. It was nice and having him with me and it made the experience all that more motivating although we had to make it a quick walk since it started to get windy. That’s New England for ya!

Shout out to all the moms who make it work. It’s not easy, but that’s what makes us a Superwoman, right? We provide our family with love and comfort while working and taking care of ourselves at the same time. I believe that I can get back to my pre-pregnancy weight and that right there is more than enough. I know I can, I know I can, I know I can.

Hope you all have a fabulous day!

Love

Wow, I don’t even know where to begin. It’s been a long time since I’ve actually just sat here and wrote anything.

A lot has happened.

The most wonderful thing that has happened – I have become a mom to the most amazing little baby boy and today he is 4 months old! I can’t picture life without him… I can’t even remember what life was like without him. His name is Dylan. Dylan Alexander. He’s my little miracle, he gives life so much more of a meaning. It was love at first sight- I never thought I could feel this amount of love towards someone. Once I saw him, life changed instantly and for the better. He brings so much happiness to me.

Happiness is also what Jake makes me feel. He has been the best father that Dylan could ever have. I love watching them play together, or when Jake feeds him or watching him put Dylan to sleep – it really makes me feel so happy and warm inside- I can’t explain it. I’m the luckiest woman in the world. I feel like I won the lottery with Jake and Dylan. They are the true definition of what love is to me. I believe love is powerful and makes people do crazy things and feel a certain way that can’t be put into words.  Life doesn’t have to be perfect to be beautiful. Embrace the small things and treasure them because when you look around, life is pretty amazing. Becoming a mother has made me view life in such a different way. I love my son and Jake through the ups and downs and to the moon and back. My little familia❤️

 

May the way I look at you, the way I speak with you, and the way I treat you, reflect the truth that I have loved you since forever.  -Dr. Steve Maraboli

Let me catch you up

It has been such an eventful past month. I celebrated 6 birthdays (including my own) along with having my family from Florida visit for the holidays and it was all so anticipated to happen yet it flew by so fast. I guess the best way to describe all that I’ve been up to is to actually show you all through my pictures.
So here it goes…

Let’s start with my sisters 15th birthday

Next: A Day in New York

And also a day in Vermont:

It has all been so much fun, but tomorrow it’s time to go back to reality. Since I work at a school, I’ve had a break just like the kids. I’ve thought about them over vacation and I’m excited to see them again. This is more of a “catching up” post since I’ve been so busy with all that’s been going on, but there will more to come dear readers!

Love always,
Dee

Happiness.

Sunday at the beach with J.

Selfies on my instagram. Follow me @dalicediaz

J.

Selfie babe!

Siblings.

Perfect.

Life

Something has gotten into me. Something great. I call it “Hardcore Happiness” I’ve always said “You can’t live a positive life with a negative mind,” which is true.

Okay, so I’ll tell you the truth… I’ve been dealing with this health issue that I am not 100% okay with talking about it openly yet, but I’m learning to deal with it and telling myself that everything is going to be okay. Yes, I get super anxious at times and I don’t really know what to expect because as of now I am playing the waiting game and not sure what it could turn into. I also begin to feel overwhelmed at times, but you know what? If I just sit here and worry all day, I won’t really enjoy the “NOW” — for this very reason it’s why I am not a huge fan about talking about it all the time. Though I may be dealing with this, I’m not dealing with it alone and I love my family, close friends and boyfriend for being there for me when I needed them and how they continue to be a great support system. XO Words cannot express how much I love them.

It’s all about enjoying your loved ones and being kind to everyone. You never know who may have it worse than you do. Some people take for granted of what and who they have in their life which blows my mind. I am fortunate enough to have such great people in my life who love and care about me. It’s all the little things that you may not notice which mean a lot… at least to me they do.

For example:
“Good Morning”
“How was your day?”
“Be careful”
“Text me when you get home so I know you’re safe”
“Sweet dreams”
“How are you?”
“I hope you’re feeling better”
“Have a good day today!”
“I miss you”
“Good night”…
“Can you come over?”
“Can I come over?”
“Can I see you?”
“Can I call you?”
“You’re beautiful”
“Want something to drink?”
“Watch your step”
“Let’s watch a movie”
“What are you up to?”
“How is your day so far?”
“It will be okay”
“I’m here for you”
“Do you need anything?”
“Are you hungry?”
“I just wanted to hear your voice”
“You just made my day”

You don’t have to hear “I Love You” to know that someone does. Listen carefully. People speak from the heart more often than you think
I hope this post makes you realize how precious life is and to pay close attention to those around you. Quit bashing what you hate, promote what you love and keep it moving people; life doesn’t stop for anyone.

Until next time,
Dee

DRILL HARD OR GO HOME.

When I was in high school I took part in the Air Force JROTC Drill Team all four years. Now my younger brother and sister are a part of it and it is so amazing watching them grow and become successful throughout the years along with their friends. This is a short documentary on their trip to Nationals this year. My family and I also attended as a support system and we also made lunch bags for them. It took place in Washington D.C which was awesome because it was my fourth time being in D.C and being able to go sight seeing, but more importantly support the MA-771 AFJROTC Drill Team as they competed.

I GRADUATED FROM COLLEGE!

I did it!

My lovely family

My aunt made this cake. How amazing!

Best friend

Friends!

Best friend

My love

Just lovely

5 more days

Until graduation!!!! I still cannot believe it. This has been a goal and dream of mine since I was younger.  And I’ll be the first to graduate from college in my family which means a lot. My family is super proud of everything I have accomplished thus far and I too am proud and thankful for this accomplishment. This is just the beginning to a new chapter in my life and i can’t wait to see what the future has in store for me!  I’ll make sure to post pictures from graduation,  etc.
x, Dee

Relieved

Alright, I am officially done with finals as an undergraduate student and it is the best feeling!!! This week has been so hectic for me, but it’s all done and over with. I can’t believe I am graduating from my university next Saturday.  Time is flying by and my dreams are slowly, but surely becoming reality! I wouldn’t have made it this far if it wasn’t for my amazing family and close friends. I’ve been surrounded with such great energy by family, best friends and boyfriend; I wouldn’t trade them for the world. I am super thankful for everything and everyone that has helped me along the way.
If any of you out there are taking finals or just stressing over something, look back and think of all the good things/people in your life. Some people may have it worst and sometimes we take things for granted. In life, we are usually tested and if it wasn’t a blessing then it was a lesson. Don’t let anyone rain on your parade, strive to be amazing and remember that you can’t live a positive life with a negative mind.
Next Saturday will be such a huge accomplishment… I’ll keep you posted! 🙂

Special

I don’t know what you do or what you say to make me feel so special.

Today was amazing.

I went to drop off my final this morning and after that I went on a peaceful nature walk with my Jake. It was just what I needed, especially this week because it’s been so stressful with finals, etc. I can’t wait to go back there and explore more trails.

The trail we walked today.

After that, we went to my place and as I was working on a final paper, he stayed with me until I finished and actually helped me stay on track. His presence being in the same room as mine was enough for me. After that we went for a Starbucks run to come back and just watch some T.V and just chill….It’s also so awesome how welcoming my family makes him feel. Everything has just fallen into place so greatly. I don’t know what I did to deserve this, but I don’t want this feeling to ever go away. I am so thankful for everything thus far.. and if you’re reading this JDC, just know that you mean the world and more to me. Finally found someone who understands my weirdness and can joke around with, but at the same time appreciates my love and corny words.  Don’t kill me for posting these silly pics of us on here, but I couldn’t help it. Days like these are the ones I cherish the most. xoxo

 

Because we’re goofballs and we love it.

Until the next post peeps. Hope you all had an amazing day & thanks for keeping up with Dee 😉