The one

You are the one.

The one I can run to when I’m feeling all sorts of anything. The one I can act a complete fool with and not feel judged. The one I can talk about my dreams and life long goals with. The one I can take adventures with and make memories for a lifetime. The one I can call at 3a.m because I had a nightmare or to simply hear your voice. The one I can take pictures with (silly or not) because you know photography is one of my favorite things. The one I can just look at and admire how handsome you are OR the one I catch staring at me when I glance over to look at you. The one that can communicate with me by just staring into each other’s eyes. The one that shows me passion, boundless and everlasting love; even if it’s just a text saying how much you love me.

You are the one I have wanted all along and to be able to call you mine gives me the most amazing feeling in the world. To know that my lover is my best friend means everything to me and to know that we both want to share our lives together makes it even more worthwhile. We’ve already been through a lot and always keep moving forward and continue to love each other. And that’s the beauty of love…. To surpass any obstacles that may come our way and to continue loving unconditionally. Every second we spend together, I truly cherish.

Thank you for being you, making me feel so special and for giving me your friendship and your supportive, sarcastic, happy, understanding, pure and sweet love.

I love you forever.

Emotions

It’s okay to be nervous about speaking your mind, but do not hold back on saying what you are thinking or feeling by mistaking it to being too sensitive or emotional.

Especially if it’s a relationship or has to do with a person you care about tons; the other person should thank you and respect what you’re feeling. I guess I’m bringing this up because I just got out of my Community Conflict Resolution class and talked about mediation and how hearing each other out when in a conflict is super important EVEN IF you don’t think the conflict is a big deal. When someone fully opens up to you, they are selling a little bit of their soul to you because they confide in you and trust that you will appreciate them speaking their mind on what or how they are feeling. Being too emotional or sensitive is usually looked down upon because people think it is a sign of being weak, but if you truly care for someone or about a relationship then why the hell not be completely honest with them? A relationship between two people is never going to be perfect (trust and believe that now if you think otherwise) and that’s the beauty of it. There is such beauty in solving small or big conflicts and moving along with life because it shows how much love and care is put into the relationship by the two people (or a group of people). Showing emotion is a sign of strength because you are letting another individual (or group of people) into your heart and brain and it is not always easy to do so. If the other person thinks you are weak for being too sensitive or emotional, than that person doesn’t deserve all of your time, etc.

So own it. Own being outspoken and honest about how you feel when it comes to your loved ones or a special relationship with someone. Love fully or don’t love at all is how I look at it. This ties back to my other post “Love so Hard” in the sense of fully loving my significant other and how the little things mean the most to me. I can honestly say that I am a victim of “having a big heart” and sharing my thoughts and feelings with him because I would not be able to hold something back from him. He knows that I care and if you’re reading this right now Jake, I love you more than life xo

Happy Thoughts to all you readers 🙂

You.

The best kind of relationships begin unexpectedly. When you get the astonished feeling and everything happens so suddenly. That’s why you don’t look for love. It comes to you just at the right time; the time you never thought it would.

2 things

First,

I can’t stop thinking about graduation this weekend. It is NOW starting to really sink in that I am graduating from college. It still seems so surreal to me. 4 more days! So close.

and

Second,

Today my Jake left me a letter tucked in my car door and it was honestly such a great feeling as I read it. Before him, I was such a hopeless romantic, but things have fallen into place so effortlessly. I couldn’t be any happier.

 

That is all.

x,

Dee