Being a mommy vs. fitness

When I was pregnant everything I saw was either pregnancy related, pregnant women or babies…. EVERYWHERE! Or maybe I just started noticing those things more since I was soon going to enter the world of motherhood. One of the most motivating things I saw often would be mothers with their child in a stroller out for a walk and I wanted to do the same one day. I was pregnant during the summertime and to those mommies who have been there know what great joy that is…. not really.

Dylan was born in September – Crisp, cool air. I figured it’d be perfect before winter made an appearance. I really wanted to get back into shape and eat healthier, etc. That’s when reality hit me. I was a new mom, breastfeeding, lack of sleep and was only able to take two months off from work. I became a working mom in November and life got busier with work, Dylan and Jake, trying to maintain a social life, but who am I kidding!? It may sound like I’m making up excuses to not work out and to be honest, sometimes I did/do use them as an excuse. All I want most days is to sleep, clean, eat or a nice, hot shower.

I still haven’t got into a routine that includes working out, but I really want to figure it out. I have lost 28 pounds so far which I’m happy about. Friends and family tell me not to be so hard on myself about losing weight, but I just want to get back to how I used to be. I’ve been a tad bit impatient about it and I believe that’s my problem.  However, I’m trying to stay positive and take it one step at a time 🙂 Also, today I took Dylan out for a walk in his stroller for the first time since the temperature was up a little. It was nice and having him with me and it made the experience all that more motivating although we had to make it a quick walk since it started to get windy. That’s New England for ya!

Shout out to all the moms who make it work. It’s not easy, but that’s what makes us a Superwoman, right? We provide our family with love and comfort while working and taking care of ourselves at the same time. I believe that I can get back to my pre-pregnancy weight and that right there is more than enough. I know I can, I know I can, I know I can.

Hope you all have a fabulous day!

Life

Something has gotten into me. Something great. I call it “Hardcore Happiness” I’ve always said “You can’t live a positive life with a negative mind,” which is true.

Okay, so I’ll tell you the truth… I’ve been dealing with this health issue that I am not 100% okay with talking about it openly yet, but I’m learning to deal with it and telling myself that everything is going to be okay. Yes, I get super anxious at times and I don’t really know what to expect because as of now I am playing the waiting game and not sure what it could turn into. I also begin to feel overwhelmed at times, but you know what? If I just sit here and worry all day, I won’t really enjoy the “NOW” — for this very reason it’s why I am not a huge fan about talking about it all the time. Though I may be dealing with this, I’m not dealing with it alone and I love my family, close friends and boyfriend for being there for me when I needed them and how they continue to be a great support system. XO Words cannot express how much I love them.

It’s all about enjoying your loved ones and being kind to everyone. You never know who may have it worse than you do. Some people take for granted of what and who they have in their life which blows my mind. I am fortunate enough to have such great people in my life who love and care about me. It’s all the little things that you may not notice which mean a lot… at least to me they do.

For example:
“Good Morning”
“How was your day?”
“Be careful”
“Text me when you get home so I know you’re safe”
“Sweet dreams”
“How are you?”
“I hope you’re feeling better”
“Have a good day today!”
“I miss you”
“Good night”…
“Can you come over?”
“Can I come over?”
“Can I see you?”
“Can I call you?”
“You’re beautiful”
“Want something to drink?”
“Watch your step”
“Let’s watch a movie”
“What are you up to?”
“How is your day so far?”
“It will be okay”
“I’m here for you”
“Do you need anything?”
“Are you hungry?”
“I just wanted to hear your voice”
“You just made my day”

You don’t have to hear “I Love You” to know that someone does. Listen carefully. People speak from the heart more often than you think
I hope this post makes you realize how precious life is and to pay close attention to those around you. Quit bashing what you hate, promote what you love and keep it moving people; life doesn’t stop for anyone.

Until next time,
Dee